My mom has this theory that if you are in a relationship, and gain, or lose 20 pounds, you break the relationship “contract”. Yes I said my MOM said this lol. Now before we all get crazy, I don’t think pregnancy is included. She feel’s as though 20 pounds bigger, or smaller, you look different. That change gives the other person the right to re-negotiate LMAO. I always thought it was harsh, but every time I tell a man, they start to crack up, and they always agree!! What do my laddies think? Now my mom thinks, woman, and men need to be held accountable for health and the way they look. LOL I know my moms a handful.